To understand what conscious relating is, we first have to look at what it replaces. So often, the harm done in our most intimate relationships isn’t born out of malice. It is born out of fear.

If you’ve ever dipped a toe into the world of manifestation, you’ve likely met the dominant narrative: You are the Creator. You must decide, from the void of infinite possibility, exactly what you want. Then, through sheer will, focused intention, and relentless action, you must build it—brick by heavy brick. It’s a paradigm of monumental responsibility, pressure, and hard work. Making something from nothing. And if you’re like many of my clients, that narrative can leave you